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"NO ONE TELLS ME WHAT TO DO", "MY WAY IS THE RIGHT ONE"

How often do you think that❓


If you do, you certainly have the Controller saboteur.


People with the Controller saboteur have usually the following characteristics:

⭐ Strong energy and need to control and take charge.⚡

⭐Connect with others through competition, challenge, physicality, or conflict rather than softer emotions.⚔️

⭐Wilful, confrontational, straight talker.

⭐Push people beyond comfort zone.

⭐Comes alive when doing the impossible and beating the odds.

⭐Stimulated by and connects through conflict.⚔️ Surprised that others get hurt.😮

⭐Intimidate others. In-your-face communication interpreted by others as anger or criticism.


They tell themselves:

⭐"Without the Controller, you can’t get much done".

⭐"You need to push people".

⭐"If I don’t control, I will be controlled, and I can’t live with that".

⭐"I am trying to get the job done for all our sakes".


Guess what, if you are telling yourself that, your Controller saboteur is lying to you!😵


You might gain short term control but you lose long-term influence.😦


How present is the Controller saboteur in you❓ Check the 5 minutes assessment: https://ask.calliecares.com/whats-your-saboteur-quiz/




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